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Always on-line or Respect?
2011-10-04 12:09 (1482 Views)

Dear friends,

Have you noticed how we all have changed during recent years and I do not mean that we have got more grey hair, at least some of us, or that we actually are older. I'm thinking of how we act during meetings. 20 years ago or even 10 years ago we paid attention during meetings. We took a break when it what scheduled and we normally took care of whatever telephone call or other matter during that break.

How about now? If you look around a meeting or conference hall today you can see most attendees busy on their Blackberrys, IPads, lap-tops or other devices.

Is this showing that you are interested or that you contribute to the meeting?
What is more important, is that respect to the person or persons that are talking??!!

I have seen participants that do not let go of the Blackberry for one single moment during a meeting, I have seen the use of IPads being used constantly during meetings. What is also becoming more and more frequent especially in larger meetings is that independent discussions start amongst the delegates resulting in everyone getting disturbed.
Now you will most likely say that I do the same which I have to agree is true. I do act the same way during meetings and I think this is showing how bad it has become. I have advocated for a long time that this is a very bad habit and I very clearly have the view that all these devices should be left alone during meeting, still I act the same way!
It is now my clear view that we should respect the meeting, this would benefit all of us!
The next meeting I attend my Blackberry will stay in my pocket

Comments

    A very good point, respect the meeting!
    Well put! One could add other respectful actions such as coming on time to meetings and being prepared (i.e. actually reading the material intended to be discussed at the meeting).
    Great point. As I am a much worse (probably the worst) sinner on this topic you might become a rich man if we introduce a penalty regime between us on SEK 100.00 per Blackberry conviction in joint meetings?
    Alpana Johnsson likes this.
    Totally agree. Another point would be to only invite the relevant persons to the meeting, with the right competences and mandates to take a decision, not just the usual suspects.
    Valid point Göran which I fully support for the only exception, in my opinion to use mobile devices, if you tweet during conferences to share your view to spread the word.
    Maybe we should have meetings via the BB instead, chatting online to each other
    This is a challenge indeed - and was also brought up in a recent 'You are SEB' dialogue.
    Easy to say, less easy to live.